Of friends and sushi
Yesterday while having lunch with Jen, I noticed that we don't really seem to talk to each other. We got to Genkhi Sushi and sat around the sushi belt. Ordered our green tea and then just sat and checked out the offerrings on the belt. Picked some plates and started eating.
I felt a bit weird so I tried to make conversations; I haven't seen her for a few weeks, close to a month.
"So, anything new?" I asked.
"Nah! Not really. How bout you?" came the reply.
"Nothing here either."
Then silence and more eating.
Is it normal for people who've been friends to have nothing to say to each other? Nothing to talk about? Nothing that they'd like to share when they meet? Y'know, to catch up on the week(s)/month(s). Do friends tend to have the same conversations over and over again? Questions like "Anything new?", "When will you be quitting?", "I thought you wanted to quit?", "Have you seen [movie name]?"
I don't know. It just felt weird.
My friends and I usually go out and do something - movies, pool, bowling, eat (all time favourite) - and even if we don't go out and just hang out in P's place, we'd watch a movie. All activities not requiring minimal communication skills. When we do find ourselves in situations where we actually have to speak to each other, the topic usually centers around work (boring) or if I'm talking to P, what shows/musicals would we like to go for next.
Hmmm ... I'll have to pay more attention to whether this is true for every occassion our clique meet up.
Maybe it was just yesterday. A one time thing.
Maybe it was the sushi ...